Wednesday, May 23, 2012

R.I.P John "PA" Reardon

As some followers of this blog might know, my dad had not been well since before Thanksgiving, He'd been in and out of the hospital and Christmas was the last holiday that he was able to be home and with all his family. He underwent open-heart surgery on Jan 30th, but due to complications, never came home, and passed away on Mothers Day at 6:00 AM. He was suffering very badly at the end, but never gave up, or lost his courage. The pic above is him and mom on a cruise they took to Bermuda a couple years ago.

Here's a link that tells you a bit about him, and what kind of guy he was HERE

The outpouring of support from everywhere was just unbelievable, especially at his wake, where two police details were needed as the main road in my hometown was backed up a half-mile just to get into the funeral home. A great testament to how many people knew, loved, and respected "PA"

Through it all, my fellow bloggers provided excellent posts and stories to keep my mind off things. Thanks so much. Hopefully, my mom gets through it a day at a time and enjoys a really nice stretch of life ahead of her.

He was one of the good ones in life, and will be missed greatly!

11 comments:

  1. Sean, what a lovely and fitting tribute here to your father. My thoughts are with you and your family today, and I also hope that your mom enjoys everything that is left to come. Grieving takes time, but after that, the sun shines again.

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    1. R.S.- Thanks so much for the kind words. To make matters worse, I was recently diagnosed with severely low vitamin D, so I could really use that sunshine asap :)

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  2. Sean-
    Very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing - even when someone is suffering nothing is ever "for the best". Nothing replaces that hole you're left to fill with memories. I think the outpouring of tributes and support from the people who knew him says it all, and as each day goes on try to hold on to the smiles, the laughter, and all the moments you shared. We will keep him and you in our thoughts.
    Best- KM

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  3. Kevin- Great to hear from you and those are words to live by. Take care, and best of luck with the writing!

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  4. I remember when my father died, and the church was so full of flowers they had to leave some outside. A great tribute to your father. You must be very proud to have had him.

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    1. Charles-Wow, that is also a fine tribute to your dad. Proud is a perfect word, and thanks for the support.

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  5. Sean, I'm sorry to hear of this. He sounds like a man who will leave a very big hole for all of you. I know that the blogging world was very kind to me when my mom died, and I hope you are experiencing some of that warmth that people feel for you. It sounds like you have a wonderful supportive family and that is very important at such times.

    My best to all of you.

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  6. Seana- I remember when your mom passed and the heartfelt, excellent tribute post you wrote. The Blogging world was very kind to you, and the same holds true for me. I have a great family! Thanks for the kind words!

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  7. Hi Sean - So sorry for your loss, sir. My condolences. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam.

    Declan

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    1. Dec- Thanks so much, it means a lot!. I looked up the sysing you listed and it appears to mean "May his soul be on God's right side". That is a beautiful sentiment and very meaningful! Hope all is well.

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  8. Sean - Sorry about your dad. And, yes, what a great testament. Take care, and thanks for stopping by my blog.

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